Dont ever work for someone you dont want to become.
工作的目的在于提成自己，成为自己想成为的那个人。
Cultivate 12 people who love you, because they are worth more than 12 millions people who like you.
关注身边的人
Dont keep making the same mistakes; try to make new mistakes.
不要停滞不前，发现问题要改正，找到一个机制避免下次发生。
If you stop to listen to a musician or stree performer for more than a minute, you owe them a dolloer
对于别人的任何一个优点，都要大声表示肯定。
Anything you say before the word "but" does not count.
听清楚别人表达的重点是什么。
When you forgive others, they may not notice, but you will heal. Forgiveness is not something we do for others, it is a gift to ourselves.
宽恕别人，自己得到益处。
Courtesy costs nothing. Lower the toilet seat after use. Let the people in the elevator exit before you enter. Return shopping carts to their designated areas. When you borrow something, return it better shape(filed up, cleaned) than when you got it.
生活中的点点滴滴，都是修行。
Whenever there is an argument between two sides, find the third side.
永远不要把自己放置在二元对立中。
Efficiency is highly overrated; Goofing off is highly underrated. Regularly scheduled sabbaths, sabbaticals, vacations, breaks, aimless walks and time off are essential for top performance of any kind. The best work ethic requires a good rest ethic.
学会休息，是高效工作的前提。千万别burn-out
When you lead, you real job is to create more leaders, not more followers.
成为领导的目的在于insipre 其他人也能lead
Criticize in private, praise in public.
私下批评，公开表扬
Life lessons will be presented to you in the order they are needed. Everything you need to master the lesson is within you. Once you have learned a lesson, you will be presented with next one. If you are alive, that means you still have lessons to learn.
It is the duty of a student to get everything out of a teacher. and the duty of a techer to get everything out of a student.
不懂就要询问，准备接受所有的询问，这就是成为学生和老师的真谛。
If winning becomes too important in a game, change the rules to make it more fun. Changing rules can becomes the new game.
游戏在于过程。如果游戏结果重要，可以改变游戏规则，变成游戏过程更加好玩。
Ask funders for money, and they give you advice; but ask for advice and they give you money.
寻求建议，资源便会到来。
Productivity is often a distraction. Dont amin for better ways to get through your task as quickly as possible, rather aim for better tasks that you never want to stop doing.
追求一种能够享受的任务而不是其他
Immediately pay what you owe to vendors, workers, contractors. They will go out of their way to work with you first next time.
该付给别人的一定要立即支付。
The biggest lie we tell ourselves is "I dont need to write this down because I will remember it".
永远不要相信自己的记忆
You growth as a conscious being is measured by the number of uncomfortable conversations you are willing to have.
个人的成长是有那些不舒服的对话来衡量的。
Speak confidently as if you are right, but listen carefully as if you are wrong.
自信说话，细心聆听。
Handy measure: the distance between your fingertips of your outstretched arms at shoulder level is your height.
用身边的工具解决问题
The consistency of your endeavors (exercise, companionship, work) is more important than the quantity. Nothing beats small things done every day, which is way more important than what you do occasionally.
习惯的力量是无穷的。每天进步一点点。
Making art is not selfish; it's for the rest of us. If you don't do your thing, you are cheating us.
做该做的事情。对他人有意义的事情。
Never ask a women if she is pregnant. Let her tell if she it.
不要询问女士的生理状况，包括年龄，体重，手术等。
Three things you need: The ability to not give up something till it works, the ability to give up something that does not work, and the trust in other people to help you distinguish between the two.
三样东西同等重要：坚持直到成功，放弃不起作用的事情，信任他们和自我的智慧去分辨。
When publich speaking, pause frequently. Pause beore you say something in a new way, pause after you have said something you beieve is important, and pause as a relief to let listeners absortb details.
公开演讲的能力在于合适的停顿。在于引出新的知识，在于结束信息，在于说完你觉得重要的信息。
There is no such thing as being 'on time'. You are either late or you are early. You choose.
没有恰到好处的合适时间，要么早，要么晚。这都在于你的选择。（个人认为意识早些，行动晚些）
Ask anyone you admire: Their lucky breaks happened on a detour from their main goal. So embrace detours. Life is not a straight line for anyone.
拥抱曲折，生活从来不是一条直线。 问一下你倾佩的人，他们的幸运往往发生在曲折的路上。
The best way to get a correct answer on the internet is to post an obviously wrong answer and wait for someone to correct you.
在得到正确答案之前，或许有很多恶意，请忽略他们。
You'll get 10X better results by elevating good behaviro rather than punishing bad behavior, especially in children and animals.
鼓励好的行为，比惩罚坏的行为有10倍的效益。
Spend as much time crafting the subject line of an email as the message itself because the subject line is often the only thing people read.
邮件的标题重要性怎么强调都不过分。最好再有一个概要或是tldr，用1234罗列要点。
Don't wait for the strom to pass, dance in the rain.
学会大雨中跳舞，这是暴风雨中最重要的，也是最简单的。
When checking references for a job application, employers may be reluctant or prohibited from saying anything negative, so leave or send a message that says, "Get back to me if you highly recommend this applicant as super great" If they don't reply take that as a negative.
如何避免让别人说出负面的话，却能得到自己想要的信息。
Use a password manager; Safe, easiler, better.
请使用密码管理器。
Half the skill of being educated is learning what you can ignore.
学会什么东西可以忽略，是一个受教育的标志。
The advantage of a rediculously ambitious goal is that it sets the bar very high so even in failure it may be a success measured by the ordinary.
取法乎上，仅得乎中
A great way to understand yourself is to seriouly reflect on everyting you find irritating in others.
认真反思自己让别人讨厌的事情，这样才能有自我认识。
Keep all your things visible in a hotel room, not in drawers, and all gathered into one spot. That way you'll never leave anything behind. If you need to have something like a charger off ot the side, place a couple of other large items next to it, because you are less likely to leave 3 items behind than just one. If
把东西放在看得见的地方。
Denying or deflecting a complient is rude. Accept it with thanks, even if you believe it is not deserved.
充满感谢的接受赞美。
Always read the plaque next to the monument.
不要忘记历史。
When you have some success, the feeling of being an imposter can be real. Who am I fooling? But when you create things that only you - with your unique talents and experience - can do, then you are absolutely not an imposter. You are the ordanined. It is your duty to work on things that only you can do.
取得成功后的一些冒名顶替者焦虑是正常的。 做好事情是自己的职责。
What you do on your bad days matters more than what you do on your good days.
逆境中做的事情比顺境中更重要。
Make stuff that is good for people to have.
做对别人有意义的事情。
When you open paint, even a tiny bit, it will always find its way to your clothes no matter how careful you are. Dress accordingly.
做事情要干净利索。对与可能的发生要有准备。
To keep young kids behaving on a car road trip, have a bag of their favoriate candy and throw a piece out the window each time they misbehave.
怎么去约束小孩子。
You cannot et smart people to work extremely hard just for money.
不可能让聪明人仅仅为了钱而卖命。
When you don't know how much to pay someone for a particular task, ask them "what would be fair" and their answer usually is.
询问人们合理的报价。
90% of everything is crap. If you think you don't like opera, romance novels, TikTok, county music, vegan food, NTFs, keep trying to see if you can find the 10% that is not crap.
90%的东西都是垃圾，但是要去寻找剩下的10%
You will be judged on how well you treat those who can do nothing for you.
你对待那些你没有任何帮助的人的方式，会成为别人评判你的标准。
We tend to overestimate what we can do in a day, and underestimate what we can achieve in a decade. Miraculous things can be accomplished if you give it ten years. A long game will compound small gains to overcome even big mistakes. The
我们会高估一天能做的事情，低估10年能达到的成就。大量积累小的成就来克服大的问题。
Thanks a teacher who changed your life.
感谢改变你人生的那位老师。
You cannot reason someone out of a notion that they didn't reason themselves into.
你无法说服别人放弃连自己都不相信的观念。
You best job will be one that you were unqualified for because its streches you. If fact only apply to jobs you are unqualified for.
申请那些现阶段无法胜任的任务，它会让你拼尽全力。
Buy used books. They have the same words as the new ones. Also libraries.
购买二手书
You can be whatever you want, so be the person who ends meetings early.
你可以成为任何你想成为的人，所以要成为有能力提早结束会议的人。
A wise man said "Before you speak, let your words pass through three gates. At the first gate ask youself, is it true? At the second gate ask it is neessary, at the thrid gate ask, is it kind?"
开口前三问：是真的吗？有必要吗？ 对他人有帮助吗？
Take the stairs.
感受过程，而非结果。
The chief prevention aganist getting old is to remain astonished.